Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Death and All His Friends – Grandfather Edition
On the phone with my grandfather
K: Hi there!
Dad-dad: Who's this?
K: (shouting) IT'S KIERSTEN!
DD: Oh, hi! You don't have to shout.
K: (sighing) OK. How ya doin'?
DD: Oh, all right I guess. That pain doctor wants to burn my nerves
K: He's getting on your nerves?
DD: No, he wants to burn the ends of the nerves in my spine off. Where I have pain.
K: Um, I don't think so. Who is this guy?
DD: The pain doctor I've been seeing. The injections aren't working see. Your mom wants me to see Dr. J- first
K: I was going to say that. I definitely want you to get his opinion before you let anyone burn anything. He's a great pain doctor. He did really well by Mom when she lived down there. If anyone's taking a sodering iron to your nerves, it better be Dr. J-
DD: Yeah. I need to get this cardiologist stuff done first. Your aunt takes care of fall of that. She knows the guys at the hospital, see. I don't know why I don't just call Lownes and be done with it.
K: Who's that? The cardiologist?
DD: No! Lownes. The funeral home.
K: (laughing) Oh! Of course. Well, sure, that's definitely an option. A little premature perhaps…
DD: Yeah, I was talking to Peggy. She's the lady that organizes the van transportation and everything, mostly with the assisted living and healthcare people. She set me up when your aunt and I went down to the VA clinic last week in the van. And I was telling her that my granddaughter was driving down from north Jersey next week to take me back so I wouldn't need the van again.
DD: And I said to her, we should just go get a discount at Lownes. Six for the price of one.
K: (laughing) Did she laugh?
DD: (chuckling) Oh yeah.
K: Who are the other five people? Do you have anyone in mind?
DD: I dunno. I'm sure we could rustle up a few candidates around here.
K: Yeah. That shouldn't be any trouble for you.
DD: Whadythey call it when they drain all the blood from you?
DD: (with exaggerated patience) Noooo. I don't wanna bleed to death.
DD: Closer. Yeah. Embalming! That's what we should do. Just have them embalm me and be done with it.
K: That would save me from having to drive down there next week.
DD: See what I mean? Works for everyone.